ladies...it's okay

It’s okay if your dream is to be a wife. It’s okay if your dream is to be a mom. It’s okay if your dream is to be a career woman. It’s okay if you want to do it all. IT IS OKAY.

Everywhere I turn I see posts telling us as women what we should and should not aspire to be. Women being shamed because they love being a SAHM and homemaker, as if they somehow set the bar low because they don't have a desire to be a CEO. On the flip side, I've seen SAH women bash ladies who are career driven, as if that somehow makes them crappy a wife/parter/mother. THAT IS NOT OKAY. The most beautiful thing about living in this day and age (to me) is our freedom of choice, to able to decide how we want to spend our time and who we want to spend it with. If you find yourself in a vicious judgment cycle of a woman who maybe chose a different path than you, stop and ponder why it is that you are feeling that way and then let that shit go. Quite frankly, it's none of your business. Let's spend less time telling each other how to live and just LIVE together, appreciating that we all define success and happiness in a completely unique way.